We are all given gifts, they differ from person to person, it is what we do with them that counts. If we waste them or don’t use them for a good purpose, things never seem to fall into place. We all know what is good for us, we don’t need someone to take charge, nobody can do it better than we can for ourselves. Step up and take responsibility for our own lives.
When we choose to take a stand, not yield to pressure, we learn that we can triumph over darkness. Facing the truth, we take the actions necessary to accomplish our goals, despite our fear of failure. The difficulties we will face in life are great, when we choose the right path, it may take us into unknown territory, yet if we stay the course we find what we need most.
When change comes into our lives it is rarely welcomed. It can turn our lives upside down and take us outside of our comfort zone. It is usually only looked at favorably in hindsight.
So when is the best time to make changes to our lives? Most of us only change when we are forced into it by a circumstance of life. There are seldom times when we decide that the way things are now is no longer acceptable so we truly commit to change. I’m not talking about a three day cleanse or a week without sugar, I’m talking about a permanent lifestyle change.
I’m here to encourage you to stop waiting until you have hit rock bottom or you have a crisis to change.
There will never be a perfect time in our lives for voluntary change, so right now is as good a time as any. The world around us is changing every day and there is nothing we can do to slow it down or stop it.
Even if life is going along perfectly and we are content, there is always room for self-improvement. There is nothing wrong with wanting something better in life. Goals are a great part of living. We should never stop learning or moving forward.
Changing because of what others think is not the answer. Forget about other people’s opinions. You are given one chance at your life, and you should stop letting others dictate your life, just like you should stop blaming others for the things in your life that have gone wrong.
Take responsibility, step up and make positive changes. If you take ownership of your life and take steps toward your goals, you will arrive where you set out.
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.
Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.
Life is hard. We all face periods when it feels like our world is collapsing in on us. During those tough times, we can either face the hard times and deal with them, or let ourselves become prisoner to our circumstances.
The holiday season is here and it tends to bring many feelings to the forefront – many good, some bad. One of the most important is gratitude.
I am coming up on my third holiday season in the Midwest. Being away from the hustle and bustle of the big city, I have truly learned to enjoy a slower pace of life. I have learned to treasure the small things that come up on a daily basis and enjoy the beauty of the country around me.
I had it in my mind, for a very long time, that the only things I should be thankful for are cash money and freedom. The funny part about that, is that the money never made me happy and freedom is something I never really had. I held on to that warped sense of “what life should be” for far longer than I should have.
It took me many years to reach a place where gratitude became an important part of my daily life.
It is easy to let life distract us with what we don’t have, but the reality is that here in the U.S. we live very blessed lives. No matter what our economic level is, we have clean water, electricity and there is always food available.
It is time for me to not only be thankful for my many blessings, but to also step it up and do what I can for others because I have been so blessed. I always talk about my “goals” and this is a big one: I will pay it forward. I will help others just as people along the way have helped me.
1 Thessalonians 5:18
Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
What are your dreams and goals? A lot of us use the phrase someday when we talk about them. We often put off taking that first step until it is too late. I wonder how many works of art died before they were ever realized? How many great stories were never told?
Kids dream big. Astronaut? President? Racecar driver? Sure!
Could it be that we were never taught how to reach our goals? When I had something I wanted to accomplish in the past I would often get caught up in my own thoughts, holding myself back. I would basically talk myself out of it. I would think, “I can never actually do that,” or, “I don’t have the education or the training.” Worse yet, “I don’t have the connections I would need to succeed with that.”
Do you see how I never even took the first step?
Today when I think about my goals, I investigate them. I learn everything I can about them and then I begin to chip away. I put one foot in front of the other. Each day I make progress in the direction I wish to go. I keep that mental picture of myself doing or succeeding at what I am dreaming about.
This is when I have learned to be patient. Let’s say I did arrive at the end without all the hard work in the middle. If that happened, I would not be ready for the success. Most likely I would fail. I wouldn’t have all lessons that I would need to fall back on that I should have learned on the way to reaching my goals.
God knows what I can handle – success and failure – and where I need to be. I have to trust in him on my journey to accomplish the dreams he has put inside me.
Ambitious dreams are great! Working towards them is part of life. Letting them die is a waste. I am sure that any cemetery is full of wasted possibilities and unfulfilled potential.
I do not know what legacy I will leave behind when I die, but I do know that I do not want to be remembered as the “Someday I’ll accomplish that,” guy.
There is no better time than right now to take that first step towards your goals.
I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
Here in the United States, we have access to so many things that can enrich our lives, yet many of us never take advantage of any of it. We all have free time, we all have resources around us – libraries, museums, job opportunities, educational opportunities. Yet most of us would rather spend our time complaining about all of the things we don’t have and the opportunities that are not handed to us, than to go out and create opportunities for ourselves. Why?
Did we lose the art of believing that anything is possible with hard work and determination? It can be easy to forget that we are all truly blessed to live in a place where there is an abundance of food and medical care is always available in emergencies. Instead, we all want more, we feel we deserve more without putting in the effort to earn it.
If we spend any amount of time watching TV or poking around on social media, we will be quickly reminded of the things we are lacking. The truth is, those things are not necessary to achieve our goals.
Life is always better when we spend our time believing that we already have the things we need to enjoy life and pursue our dreams. Don’t wait until you achieve your goals to believe in yourself. Believing you can’t thrive until you have reached your goal is a mistake, we need to thrive during the journey. To think otherwise only fills our days with negativity.
I am healthy and alive and thriving, even though I have so many goals left to achieve.
The fault in my old system of belief was that I thought everything – both good and bad – happened because of me or to me. I gave myself too much credit – I believed the world revolved around me. It is hard not to laugh at myself now looking back.
I believe that if everyday I put in my best effort, it will pay off in the future. That doesn’t mean life won’t hold struggles, but it means that I can still thrive during life’s struggles. I know life as it is at this moment is just temporary and will change sometimes for the better or worse. I believe that no matter which way life may go, I am well equipped to handle it and will continue to thrive.
May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.
Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.